Hello all,I'm an Arian guy and am after any insights into whether its possible to get approve the Scorpio chick I've just lost. We've been together for about 3 months properly and was just having a great sexual relationship before that without any emotional ties for about a month. This is also my exgirlfriend from 18 yrs ago. We had a great sexual relationship but the emotions is where the problems become. Her secrecy absolutley drives me mad because I'm so open about everything with her and its almost become an obsession to me to find out what shes up to. She said she loves me and I love her completely. The thing is shes so distant a lot of the time and it always seems like Im the one making the effort to make it bring home the bacon. We planned on going on pass next year and everything seemed book,but when we argue,we argue bad. And last weekend I was angry and said some things that really hurt her in the heat of an arguement. Although I didnt convey them literally she has taken it that way,says she can NEVER concede ME and left. So can anyone furnish me some insights into whether its possible to get this secretive Scorpio chick back,and how would I go about it. Ive said Im sorry a thousand times,told her I didnt convey it and it was just quick tempered anger. Is it possible for Scorpios to concede or shall I just accept it and act on,should I act pursuing or get the ball in her court,desire friends have said. I dont know how or why I like her so much,I just do,I'm not like this with most of my other relationships we're not kids we're in our 30'scheers Lee
Arian Lee. I can sympathise with the pain you are going through. Unfortunately astrology isn't so simple and cut and dried that it can answer a challenge like..*can an arien get back with a scorpio*.. its too general... It is possible to ask a "horary" (of the hour) challenge such as"Will we reconcile?"- for that you need to give the time the challenge is asked the place you are at when you ask it and the lat and Long for that place.. I evaluate its safe to assume you are "new" to astrology..(not being patronising)... so someone would have to interpret and even cast the chart for you.... As this is a learning forum people will be willing to help you if you are asking a serious question with a serious intent to learn about astrology.. I sight this is your first affix so welcome to the forum.... If you really do be to learn about astrology then maybe go away by studying your own sun sign (aries) and that of your friend (Scorpio)... These two are not always harmonious. but if other aspects between your planets are helpful it could over go the 150 deg relationship between these two sun signs.... Here is a link to get you started: look after yourself... Best wishes. Lillyjgc
whether its possible to get back the Scorpio chick I've just lost... Her secrecy absolutley drives me mad because I'm so open about everything with her and its almost become an obsession to me to find out what shes up to.. said some things that really hurt her in the heat of an arguement.. says she can NEVER FORGIVE ME and left
Lilly is alter it is beat to see the chart. But there are some sign energies that bear fairly predictably.. and Scorpio one of those signs. The first thing you undergo to understand about Scorpio energy is that it never forgets. And rarely forgives. So when she said "NEVER" she meant "NEVER". Move on and NEVER make that mistake with a Scorpio again. The other thing you are going to have to accept is that Scorpio energy is ALL ABOUT secrecy. Scorpio is the energy of secrecy and if you can't take secrecy.. forget about anyone with Scorpio in their chart! So when you tried to "unsecret" her secrets she took it VERY personally. Your saying some nasty things about her gave her the excuse she needed.. and she was off. And NOT coming back. Secretly,Tim
Well the fact that she NEEDED an excuse to leave from the very get go is kind of impressionable to me. I'm a 4x Scorp (Sun. Moon. Merc. Pluto) and if there's something I can tell you it's that Scorpio emotions are rarely beatable. If she really entangle/feels for you the way you share your emotions with her she'd eventually come around without a doubt. The only tweak in that statement is pretty much what you said. If you had said something she was totally insecure about; issues associated with cheating revenge of some choose ("remember that time come up. I got you back for that!) or ANYTHING that gives her a good REASON to severely question her TRUST in you that's YOUR fault. Let me make that very clear to you. However this is a very difficult case to judge by. You used to be together and when the emotions became too intense. SHE left? That seems very farfetched to me. Either way you have a personal history together and have gotten back together to pretty much fornicate excuse the expression. Perhaps she was simply falling back on you for a bit. More likely than not if she's really hiding something from you and needed an "excuse" to leave it was pretty much that from the beginning. If the emotions are real were real and she feels mutually then she ordain undoubtedly be back eventually. As far as command secrecy as far as minor issues go you'll have to just let that go. It's the way we go about things. In most cases if you truly consider that and she sees it for example. "What's do by do you want to talk?" and she responds. "No nevermind." You just undergo to say alright and see if she eventually warms up to tell you anyway. That happens a lot with me. I can't promise she'll do that but stepping on her freedom and showing her your most passionate stalker method won't get you very far. Hope i've helped. Cat
I've sent her some flowers at work to try and bring her go,maybe a identify? This is the last thing or time I ordain contact her in any way,so its now totally upto her whether to communicate me or not. Thanks again for the advice I'll let you know what happens.
I fell hopelessly in like with a double scorp male several years ago- and unfortunately he also had his MARS in scorpio.... I am a leo woman with moon in aquarius... wow.. that was the go of my life... talk about secrets.. and me being the curious cat.. an emotional nightmare... the fire-water thing.. was incredible physically and I think he really loved me but the cat and the scorpion never trust each other... and the MARS in scorpio... a very detrimental placement. But- I would do it again in a back up.. he was the love of my life.
I can see how Leos and Scorp sun signs can get on really quite well Pyxis. How do you see his Mars in Scorpio as "detrimental"? If you do say me. I don't object if you say in two ways; either technically about Dignities or about how you sight his Mars in Scorpio manifesting in the relationship kingsley
hello-KIs Mars in detriment or fall in Scorpio? I can't bequeath what degree his was in but I remember when I did his chart. I could see trouble on the horizon. He was very stubborn more so than even the usual scorpio personality extremely intellectual and precise sort of reminded me of a virgo! ha ha. Very defensive---mars in scorpio.??
As a Scorpio I find it way too funny reading about us on the internet because all of the stereotypes are so dead-on! I can't speak for everybody but I can't back up but crack up when I construe about our shared qualities in a humorous light. I've forgiven but NEVER forgotten. And even after forgiving. I'm not sure I've ever forgiven completely. There's always some part of me that hasn't forgiven. So in my experience (with myself
) she might go back to you once she's forgotten and her wound has had measure to heal but don't evaluate that there won't be a scar there to always remind her! Also I have a LOT of experience with Aries energy (ex-gf beat friend create sister closest cousin ex-band mate) and for me it could never bring home the bacon out romantically.. hearing that a girl is Aries is enough to move me off and drop about her!secrecy intensity passion deep emotions undying loyalty jealousy inability to forgive and sexual magnetism!... Someone said above we're one of the more likely signs to express our archetypal zodiacal traits and in my experience this couldn't be more true.
The classic Scorpio is extremely secretive. I am Cancerian and secretive myself so I don't mind. But for those fire sign folks. Scorpio might just be a hard way to go. You can learn a few things but you might be better off with a more mellow open and flowing type of person. Scorpios ruling planets are Mars and Pluto--so if you can handle those planets you will be book if you cannot then don't play with blast as they say. Or get used to living in the dark. Remember Pluto rules Hades. I do not want to get down on Scorpios though. This is a great sign to understand mysteries handle large transformative situations without flinching have great passion to sustain them. They are creative and incredibly intelligent. It is an intriguing sign but not for everyone. As far as forgiving it does not matter what sign you are this is something to learn take to heart and practice. What you react to concede ordain eventually destroy you so learn the art of forgiveness and mercy. There is no excuse for not loving and forgiving others. A peaceful world depends on forgiveness. It is not easy but it is possible peace,feature cater
Yes forgiveness is definitely important and definitely possible... But Scorpios are known for having more difficulty with forgiveness than any of the other signs. In my experience it's definitely true. And in my experience it doesn't come from a lack of compassion; rather it often comes from our ability to be so cause to be perceived because of how much we originally invested emotionally and how intensely we feel about the person we feel wronged us making the betrayal that much more painful.
my sister was a scorpio and I remember doing something that she could never concede me for. As far as I was concerned it really wasn't that big of a deal something that I would get mad about and forget about sooner or later but not her she remembered it till the day she died. It was ridiculous. I actually felt sorry for her that she couldn't move on over something that I considered rather trivial.
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